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Do you enjoy dinnertime with your kids?
Most moms (at least honest ones) admit they do not. In fact, just the question, “Hey mom! What’s for dinner?”, strikes dread in the heart, causing mom to break out in a cold sweat.
It’s the daily question you can’t escape. Even worse – you’ve come to dread the family table because it seems to end in disaster most nights.
Indeed, spilled milk, fussy toddlers, and sibling squabbles make mealtime an exhausting experience. I know because I was there once myself. Four kids at mealtime ain’t no joke, sista.
Thankfully, over time, I developed a system that paid off. Mealtimes became more pleasant, the hype died down a bit, and we began to establish routines. Dinnertime actually became something I looked forward to, and so did my kids.
And, family meals became a celebration!
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Dinnertime and family connections
Becky Mansfield, in 33 Things I never want my kids to forget, gives perspective on the importance of family dinner:
“We ate dinner together almost every night. We didn’t care if we were eating grilled cheese sandwiches and tomato soup, we were eating it together. TV was not allowed to be on during mealtime because we were TALKING together as a family.” She wanted her kids to remember she was intentional in spending time with her family.
My children are grown now, but when we’re together, dinnertime is still a celebrated affair.
Moreover, we often recall rich table memories full of laughter and fun. Their favorite dishes consisted of simple fare because mama didn’t have time for froufrou. Do you know the favored request for birthday dinners? Meatloaf.
For example, meatloaf! It’s easy, quick, and filling. Mom wins, kids win, everybody’s happy.
But maybe you’re thinking, “Ok, fine, you figured it out – I’m happy for you. But my family hate meatloaf. In fact, they’re picky, loud, and fussy. What am I supposed to do with THAT?!”
So, I’m glad you asked.
Here are seven quick tips I’ve learned by trial and error (and a few wise moms).
7 tips to enjoy dinnertime with your kids
1.) First… Make sure they’re hungry
If your kids are constantly snacking, they will not eat well. Limit snacking and hold your ground.
2.) Second… Limit drinks
For instance, my oldest didn’t eat for a span of three years (ages 1-4) and I finally figured out why – she was drinking all the time! Truly, a child’s stomach is smaller than an adult’s and they will literally fill up on drinks.
3.) Third… Plan ahead of time
Although this goes without saying, honestly, we all need reminding, don’t we? Indeed, I’ve been cooking for 30+ years and I still need to remember to plan once a week – BEFORE going to the store! Set aside weekly time for planning.
4.) Fourth… Serve simple foods
Like meatloaf. Or, Mac n cheese. Or, Rotisserie chicken. Truly, make it easy on yourself to prepare with a toddler clinging to your legs!
5.) Fifth… Feed them what they like (and introduce one new food weekly)
So your kid is in love with cheeseburgers and won’t eat anything else.
Then, feed him cheeseburgers but introduce new ways to make them or healthier options, such as turkey burgers, chicken burgers, and other foods that look like burgers. Truly, this takes time and patience, but it will wear off if you stay consistent!
6.) Sixth… Don’t make them clean their plates
This just makes you angrier and them frustrated. Place 3 types of food on the plate and ask them to eat a bite of each thing. A kid can handle one bite, and often she’ll eat more when tasting. Keep her seated until she’s taken the three bites.
7.) Seventh… Limit chatter
Kids get easily distracted and literally forget to eat. Keep bringing them back to the taste or color of the food and what they like about it. Consider reading a favorite story until they’re done.
These are just a few ideas to help you enjoy dinnertime with your kids, but there is so much more to dinnertime that just eating. Dinnertime should be an experience to be savored. And that’s why I’ve created a plan you can tailor for your family!
A plan to enjoy dinnertime with your kids
You see, I have a solution for how to form simple dinner methods to work for your family. Plans to foster family ties and pave the way for rich dinner hour experiences for years to come!
Systems to instill teamwork and family bonding.
I lived this life. I hear your cries for help.
And so, I’ve spent the past 3 months crafting a brand new, practical email series for you.
1. It’s a 6-day self-starter email challenge called the Dinner time Survival Guide; 6 Strategies for Table Bonding and you can join now!
It’s fantastic, addresses all the problems moms of youngsters struggle with at dinnertime, and contains practical solutions and answers – things I did that worked with my four kids!
- Your biggest drawback to dinner time success
- How to plan meals simply
- Incentives for table manners
- Adjusting chores to fit age groups
- Why meal time responsibility builds teamwork
- How to create better meal time conversation
- 3 Keys to adjusting your own dinner time attitude
- How it all ties together to form strong family bonds
This is for you if:
- You’re tired of the dinner struggle bus
- You’re ready to adopt a positive attitude
- And, you’re ready to teach your kids responsibility
- You want to build a warm family meal atmosphere
- You want to create rich meal time memories
In as little as 15 minutes each day, you’ll seamlessly craft strategies tailored to fit your busy family and get back your dinner hour sanity!
How to get your Dinnertime Survival Guide
2. Open your welcome email and check that it doesn’t go to spam (might want to white list that).
3. Within an hour, you will receive your first email!
4. Challenge runs for 6 days with one action per day, taking minutes to complete.
5. Share the challenge with your friends! Chat it up and click this link to share to Facebook!